Just saw this picture whilst doing my daily facebook browsing and i was speechless. I had to look at all the comments at the bottom before a thought about what it meant entered my head. Then i realised ok, if you harm yourself your really harming God. That made sense. But then i thought this is only physical harm. This is for the people that self harm (by no means am i condemming those who do, i understand), this is also for the people that allow their body to be used and messed round and all that. I know these physical aspects more often than not leave a mental and emotional scar. But when your hurting emotionally who feels it? Who do you blame? Who hurts on your behalf? I have found that when your hurting on the inside no one feels it but you, no one knows it but you and only you can explain the pain. Although this picture speaks a million words it doesn’t speak for me and i wish it did.
I have had just about enough of these paranoid crackpots that keep raving about the conspiracy of planet earth. It got to such a low point today that someone actually said to me aliens are really demons in disguise who are out on this earth to corrupt our DNA so we can go and destroy ourselves and the world. (she googled it so it must be a fact ?!?) What bullshit!!! People need to stop giving into these scaremongers that pose as secret spies who seem to know all the secrets that are being hidden. Oh please, get a grip. I will not deny that yes we don’t know everything and of course people of power do not disclose everything to us, but why should they. For our own protection and to stop us from acting like the apocolypse is on its way they should keep it to themselves. If we did not have people controlling things who would do it in there place, it has to be done or there will be chaos. My only problem is that they use it against us and make bad decisions on the behalf of humanity, and thats what we should be addressing. I hate it when i have to go around listening to small minded people saying homosexuals are mentally ill, and they call me small minded and just a hollow shell. Don’t believe everything you read or you see on youtube. I just believe people should live their lives to their highest degree, be good to the people and the world around you, and spread a good message as much as possible.
As many of you will know with the current surge in our abilities to use the internet as freely as we want to, some people have taken this to the extreme. With new facebook pages going up everyday and people creating blogs just to show the world who they have had sex with this week. I want to know why? Why do these young men and women feel the need to drop their skirts, unzip their jeans with anyone who looks their way. Then to put the icing on the cake they feel the need to post these videos and photographs of poor, young, troubled people all over the internet. I find it disgusting that instead of helping these young people we are pointing and laughing at their misfortune. Don’t get me wrong by no means do i believe that these people are innocent parties, if you allow someone to video you and take pictures with you when you are doing something so intimate you are responsible. But then again i doubt any of these people gave permission to be ridiculed. With so much else going on in the world, so much for us to focus our little brains on, the logic surpasses me that we are more interested in wasting our time on people who obviously have too much of it. I just hope that from these hate campaigns young lives have not been put in jeopardy, or confidence shattered by the vultures out there.
I just watched the terrifically funny, cliche, star studded and entertaining rom com… (clue is in the title). Just a few thoughts…
1. What a great message, women out there need to get a grip and a sense of reality.
2. Relationships really do not need to be that hard, it was way to complicated. When you feel like your in a movie get out.
3. This film really boosts your hope for future relations with men… then again it is just a film.
If you have ever been in any one of the relationships depicted in this film you will know exactly what it’s all about. But as i watched the film and became engrossed in these poeples lives i soon realised in reality this is how it works. There is the guy that can’t help but think the grass is greener on the other side. The one that just wants the girl and no commitment. The guy that plays the field because he thinks to settle is to surrender. Lastly the idiot who is just dellusional. On the flip side you have the woman in denial. The lady who goes around destroying relationships. The one that realises this can’t go on the way it is. Also the one who just uses every avenue to find a man. Then you have the over enthusiastic woman that never loses hope that one day the right one who will come along. (that would be me) If you look closesly at yourself you could see yourself or a little bit of yourself in almost all of these characters. My message to the people is that when you begin to slip into the land of movies just as this one re- evaluate and get out quick… because unfortunately it doesn’t always end with the man of your dreams turning up at your door professing love, or the marriage you always wanted and maybe not even getting out of that relationship that you know is going nowhere. Because even though it’s hard for me to say it usually ends up with you, Ben and Jerry and a box of tissues thinking of where it all went wrong.
Recently i realised i have a whole lot of opinions… and i only tell them to myself… so now its time to slowly spread it around the world…. sooooo i hope you like.