As many of you will know with the current surge in our abilities to use the internet as freely as we want to, some people have taken this to the extreme. With new facebook pages going up everyday and people creating blogs just to show the world who they have had sex with this week. I want to know why? Why do these young men and women feel the need to drop their skirts, unzip their jeans with anyone who looks their way. Then to put the icing on the cake they feel the need to post these videos and photographs of poor, young, troubled people all over the internet. I find it disgusting that instead of helping these young people we are pointing and laughing at their misfortune. Don’t get me wrong by no means do i believe that these people are innocent parties, if you allow someone to video you and take pictures with you when you are doing something so intimate you are responsible. But then again i doubt any of these people gave permission to be ridiculed. With so much else going on in the world, so much for us to focus our little brains on, the logic surpasses me that we are more interested in wasting our time on people who obviously have too much of it. I just hope that from these hate campaigns young lives have not been put in jeopardy, or confidence shattered by the vultures out there.
I just watched the terrifically funny, cliche, star studded and entertaining rom com… (clue is in the title). Just a few thoughts…
1. What a great message, women out there need to get a grip and a sense of reality.
2. Relationships really do not need to be that hard, it was way to complicated. When you feel like your in a movie get out.
3. This film really boosts your hope for future relations with men… then again it is just a film.
If you have ever been in any one of the relationships depicted in this film you will know exactly what it’s all about. But as i watched the film and became engrossed in these poeples lives i soon realised in reality this is how it works. There is the guy that can’t help but think the grass is greener on the other side. The one that just wants the girl and no commitment. The guy that plays the field because he thinks to settle is to surrender. Lastly the idiot who is just dellusional. On the flip side you have the woman in denial. The lady who goes around destroying relationships. The one that realises this can’t go on the way it is. Also the one who just uses every avenue to find a man. Then you have the over enthusiastic woman that never loses hope that one day the right one who will come along. (that would be me) If you look closesly at yourself you could see yourself or a little bit of yourself in almost all of these characters. My message to the people is that when you begin to slip into the land of movies just as this one re- evaluate and get out quick… because unfortunately it doesn’t always end with the man of your dreams turning up at your door professing love, or the marriage you always wanted and maybe not even getting out of that relationship that you know is going nowhere. Because even though it’s hard for me to say it usually ends up with you, Ben and Jerry and a box of tissues thinking of where it all went wrong.
Recently i realised i have a whole lot of opinions… and i only tell them to myself… so now its time to slowly spread it around the world…. sooooo i hope you like.